Is this really normal?
Maybe nothing he does seems bad enough to say out loud, and still something feels off. Answer eight short questions, and I’ll tell you honestly what I see.
About four minutes. Your answers stay on this screen and aren’t saved anywhere.
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How often does this feel like your relationship?
Take a breath first.
You just spent a few minutes looking straight at things that may have been easier to explain away. That takes more courage than most people realize.
Whatever comes next, you’re learning about your own life, and you’re allowed to take your time with it.
Was there one page that stayed with you longer than the others? Hold onto that for a moment.
If anything feels urgent or unsafe, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is free and confidential, and someone answers any hour. Call 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788. You can also chat with them at thehotline.org.
The pages that felt most like your life
Your authentic self is still in there. You deserve a life that includes you.
The Relationship Clarity Check-In workshop
I’m putting together a small workshop for women asking the same questions you asked today. We’ll talk through what I call the Five Pillars of Healthy Love. Want me to let you know when it’s ready?
Yes, let me knowWant to keep this?
I can email you your results along with the full printable “Is This Really Normal?” guide, so you can come back to it when you have a quiet moment.
Unless you asked me to email you a copy, nothing you chose here was saved. Closing this page clears it.